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Jul 6 2014 A Couple of Possibilities: Hiring an Escort for Threesome FunCategory: Diary of a San Francisco Courtesan     10:52AM   1

I've received a few requests from gentlemen who are part of a couple (with girlfriends or wives) seeking their perfect pet unicorn for thier fantasy threesome. You know, that mythical and rare creature? The Unicorn I speak of is sometimes defined as a confident, intelligent and beautiful youthful female, open/bisexual, unattached, non-possessive, GGG but doesn't ask for anything in return but a pet on her horn and maybe some Skittles when she leaves. I'm happy to be hired as your unicorn, and as a paid companion and educator I think hiring someone vs. asking a friend or picking up stranger in a bar is a lot smarter:  you know there won't be the jealousy and awkward tension that might happen when you all wake up from the unicorn dream.

So far only men have written to me looking for this fantasy, and they all say, "My partner/girlfriend/wife and I have wanted to try this for a long time." They send me the details of when and where they'd like to meet. I write back, "that's so great that you and your partner are ready to try something new and exciting in your relationship! I'm assuming you've planned it with her about meeting this Saturday as I'd like to talk with her as well."

He replies,  "Um, well, no. It's something we've talked about for many months, but she doesn't actually know what I've planned this weekend, I wanted us to have some drinks together first at the bar and tell her there."

No, No. NO!
I'll say this again: Men like mystery and surprises, women value communication and trust.  I do not want to be the surprise puppy you give your wife for Christmas or be in the room when you break the news thinking she'll be psyched and all on board for this new adventure. Bringing in a third isn't something you want to discuss while the third is having drink with you, this is something you do as a team and you should have a game plan. It could be around boundaries or if there's uncomfortable feelings that come up, halt everything and come up with a new plan. If you're timid, read some books  together on the subject like Opening Up and The Ethical Slut are great resources. Remember, I'm a unicorn, this is an experience for the two of you, my ego won't be bruised. Feed me some dollar bills and some skittles, stroke my horn gently and I'll take us away for a fun adventure ride. Taste the rainbow!

 

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AngelL said on 09-11-2015 at 3:51 am:
I'd love to talk to you about threesomes for me (female) and my (male) partner. I want to treat him, AND myself. I love my partner and I want him to experience my full sexual self...and that just might include being with a woman too.