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Joy to The Word

May 7 2014 Sex + Work + Empowerment = JoyCategory: Diary of a San Francisco Courtesan     03:47PM   0

Last weekend I attended a workshop billed for "professionals, educators and healers in the erotic arts." We all packed into a communal space in a gritty Oakland neighborhood wearing our comfy yoga pants, notebooks and laptops in hand. The first day we learned the distinctions on "consent" and the subtleties from our words (taking, giving, serving, letting, worshipping, ravishing, spanking...) and we did some experiential exercises around consent. The second day we did an intensive of "Asking For What you Really Want " (in our sex life and what trips us up around communication.) More interesting to me was the participants that came from all over the country for the workshop. We went around the room and gave our 30 second elevator pitch about what we do professionally, what we love and our challenges. What fascinated me is how many descriptive new terms for people who work in the sex work field. And by 'sex work', its definition is broadly defined to mean anyone that has a connection to human sexuality and their employment: from erotic bloggers to gynecologists to gigolos. Here's who showed up:  

Certified sexological bodyworkers*, tantra guides, conscious kink coaches, tantric massage practitioners, pleasure coaches, shamanic erotic therapists, tantric healers, sacred intimates, girlfriend experience ("GFE") companions, upscale travel escorts, private sensual companions, sensual massage therapists, erotic dancers, sacred courtesans, certified sexologists, intimacy coaches, personal intimate companions, fetish guides, somatic sex coaches, licensed sex therapists, sensual massage therapists, licensed surrogate partners and relationship coaches.

It was enlightening to meet a small group of men in the workshop that called themselves 'sacred intimates' and worked exclusively with women who seek a safe environment to explore their sexuality without judgement. They mainly found their clientele though word-of-mouth and Sacred Eros, a guide to erotic professionals.  What excited me about the group is an overall consciousness brought to a profession that's traditionally been thought of as disjointed, made the butt of jokes, secret, shameful and dangerous. That still persists, but I'm choosing to be on the path of the trailblazers; The sex-positive healers and intellectuals. From lawyers, teachers and authors that question the dominant paradigm of our culture's views on sex, morality and legal issues regarding what we can do with our own bodies, our right to privacy and pleasure. 

I believe pleasure and fantasy is our birthright, it just got sidetracked with shame passed down from the last generation and the collective mainstream culture. As a sexological bodyworker, I love connecting with men that want to heal their shame, to feel embodied and free. I feel honored to have been led under the private “velvet rope” world of very public figures and gave them permission to cry, scream into their pleasure and really be seen as strong sexual beings. When we’re riding our orgasm wave, our heart is open and we’re in the most vulnerable state we can be. I hope to ride the waves, frolic in the sand and enjoy piña colada a with you soon.

*Sexological bodywork (somatic hands-on sex education) is a certified practice and I'll be officially certified in June. I'm working on a separate website but feel free to ask me questions and booking sessions. 

Tags: sacred intimate, sacred eros, sexological bodyworkers, somatic sex educators, erotic professionals, sex therapist, tantra companion, san francisco courtesan, sensual companion, sex surrogate, surrogate partner

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